Friday 9 December 2011

Feedback from a client fearing another bout of depression after a bereavement


All is good with me,  I have managed to make time 2 to 3 times a week to do the daily exercises you showed me.
Ive had a recent situation which would have thrown me into a bit of turmoil a few months back, but after  your helpful sessions and what I have learned I ahve been able to take each day one at a time and bring myself back into the moment when I feel my thoughts getting ahead of me.

I do feel totally back on track - and better than I've felt for a long time, thanks to your help. KC

Thursday 10 November 2011

Feedback from Emma Pearmaine, Family Lawyer, Simpson Millar

Clare has helped a number of my clients to cope with the arduous and emotional stress of family separation. This help has been invaluable for the clients because they have been helped to make sense of their emotions and cope with their situations. It has also been invaluable for me because it has helped my clients to best assess the advice I give and make sensible decisions. It has also saved the clients a considerable amount of money, because it is not cost effective to use a lawyer as a counsellor - and we do not have the necessary counselling skills in any event!
I think Clare does a fantastic and professional job. The clients all relate to her well, irrespective of their problems or background. Following a session with Clare they come away positive and calm and ready to deal with the next step in the case. Clare is also very good at liasing with me, to ensure we are both helping the client in a consistent way. I would not hesitate to recommend her.www.absolute-specialists.co.uk

Thursday 27 October 2011

What does it mean to be an Absolute Specialist?

All the techniques we use and teach at Absolute are ways of putting us in touch with our inner wisdom, with peace, love or grace - whatever you want to call it. It means our consciousness has been drawn out of the thinking mind to a deeper level where we have clarity, wisdom and peace. We also have enthusiasm, purpose, motivation and empowerment and many other benefits.

When we are in this place the ego has taken a back seat - it is the ego that causes pain, confusion and makes us hurtful, fearful, vengeful, stressed, guilty etc etc. Absolute coaching is about working from our deeper truth and not from ego.

As practitioners, if we are in this zone when working with clients it is far easier to get them to go there too. From here they will find their own answers. This is absolute coaching! It is a way of working and being that we can apply to therapy, coaching, training and to businesses and other organisations.


Keeping in the zone especially when challenged or stressed takes practice - daily practice - for a lifetime or two!! We won't manage to be there all the time but that is what we aspire to do. We all need support to do this from people who have experienced and overcome the same challenges that we are facing. That is the purpose of the absolute community, the workshops, the peer supervision and the one-to-ones.


Being an absolute specialist means that we are commited to working from the zone as much as possible - that is all - everything else will follow
www.absolute-specialists.co.uk

Tuesday 13 September 2011

October workshop

The workshop in October will be open to all practitioners, complementary therapists and allied health professionals. It will explore tools for uncovering the deeper, and often subconscious issue that is causing your cleint to be stuck, confused or suffering. Working with the deeper issues is more rewarding and once your client is conscious of the block they will see their own answers. Job done.

Join us on October 20th to share and practice skills.
https://www.eventelephant.com/theenquirygettingtothedeeperissue

www.absolute-specialists.co.uk

Monday 29 August 2011

Supporting people going through a divorce

I have worked with Clare Walters for a number of sessions following my separation from my husband of many years. I found the time with Clare quite enlightening and it really helped me to focus on myself and how I was dealing with the situation. It helped me to devise strategies to enable me to accept things and ‘move-on’ with my life. The sessions also made me realise that there was no quick fix and that I was going through a grieving process which would take time. Clare was an excellent support in this as she was neither the ‘caring relative’ nor the ‘businesslike solicitor’.

I would recommend Clare to anyone for support who finds themselves in a stressful situation as she has a calm and quiet manner but manages to address the sometimes difficult area of feelings. Her strategies are simple but very effective. www.absolute-specialists.co.uk