Monday, 23 January 2012

feedback from workshops

My feedback from workshops has been scored at  4.8 /5 - an average of over 70 attendees.
Here is an example of some specific feedback:

Hazel was most struck by the willingness of people who had not previously been to a workshop to participate and their recognition that this is a powerful tool. She said: 'It was good for me as a practitioner to practice this techniqiue on someone I had not met before today.
Clare held the space very confidently and calmly and at times challenged people so that the structure and essence of the approach was not diluted. I learned a lot from watchig the others practice too.'

Emma found the workshop to offer her a 'nice' intimate group' she felt the pain releaser techniique clicked with her and she can start to apply it in practice.

Another delegate find the pain release technique simple and effective and has been using it with her clients with great success.

Another delegate was struck by the simplicity of the process and great delivery of the workshop.

And another, again struck by the simplicity and effectiveness of the technique arrived with a tension headache and left feeling peaceful and excited!
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Wednesday, 11 January 2012

divorcing amicably and for a fixed fee

Introducing collaborative law:
the amicable way to divorce
.

Absolute specialists are working closely with lawyers who support thier clients to part amicably, putting their children's interests first.

It is now possible to divorce without going to court but by sitting round a table and discussing how best to do it. This is a no-fight way to separate that allows everyone's needs to be considered.
We at Absolute are supporting this process whole-heartedly as it minimises the pain caused and maximises the likelyhood that the parting couple are able to remain on reasonable terms and move forward knowing that they did things in the best way possible.

A new website - www.dovetaildivorce.com contains a cost calculator that allows you to cost out the divorce. The fee includes the input from an IFA, who will advise on the options for working out the financial arrangements and a divorce coach who will ensure that the parting couple ar emotionally prepared for the process. This specialist support keeps the costs down by allowing the lawyers to focus on the legal apsects of the divorce.

If you need to involve a lawyer in the divorce this is probably the cheapest and best way of doing it.

So if you are considering divorce then have a look at the site. And please pass this on to anyone you know who might benefit.



http://www.dovetaildivorce.com



Sunday, 8 January 2012

Success with a young musician with stage fright


Hi Clare. Sorry i haven't replied sooner. I did perform in the talent show two times on the last day. Felt sick and used [the technique you taught me]. Stayed on to play two songs both times, wanted to get off after the first but it was great. Thanks I don't know how it would have gone without your help. :) www.absolute-specialists.co.uk


Friday, 9 December 2011

Feedback from a client fearing another bout of depression after a bereavement


All is good with me,  I have managed to make time 2 to 3 times a week to do the daily exercises you showed me.
Ive had a recent situation which would have thrown me into a bit of turmoil a few months back, but after  your helpful sessions and what I have learned I ahve been able to take each day one at a time and bring myself back into the moment when I feel my thoughts getting ahead of me.

I do feel totally back on track - and better than I've felt for a long time, thanks to your help. KC

Thursday, 10 November 2011

Feedback from Emma Pearmaine, Family Lawyer, Simpson Millar

Clare has helped a number of my clients to cope with the arduous and emotional stress of family separation. This help has been invaluable for the clients because they have been helped to make sense of their emotions and cope with their situations. It has also been invaluable for me because it has helped my clients to best assess the advice I give and make sensible decisions. It has also saved the clients a considerable amount of money, because it is not cost effective to use a lawyer as a counsellor - and we do not have the necessary counselling skills in any event!
I think Clare does a fantastic and professional job. The clients all relate to her well, irrespective of their problems or background. Following a session with Clare they come away positive and calm and ready to deal with the next step in the case. Clare is also very good at liasing with me, to ensure we are both helping the client in a consistent way. I would not hesitate to recommend her.www.absolute-specialists.co.uk

Thursday, 27 October 2011

What does it mean to be an Absolute Specialist?

All the techniques we use and teach at Absolute are ways of putting us in touch with our inner wisdom, with peace, love or grace - whatever you want to call it. It means our consciousness has been drawn out of the thinking mind to a deeper level where we have clarity, wisdom and peace. We also have enthusiasm, purpose, motivation and empowerment and many other benefits.

When we are in this place the ego has taken a back seat - it is the ego that causes pain, confusion and makes us hurtful, fearful, vengeful, stressed, guilty etc etc. Absolute coaching is about working from our deeper truth and not from ego.

As practitioners, if we are in this zone when working with clients it is far easier to get them to go there too. From here they will find their own answers. This is absolute coaching! It is a way of working and being that we can apply to therapy, coaching, training and to businesses and other organisations.


Keeping in the zone especially when challenged or stressed takes practice - daily practice - for a lifetime or two!! We won't manage to be there all the time but that is what we aspire to do. We all need support to do this from people who have experienced and overcome the same challenges that we are facing. That is the purpose of the absolute community, the workshops, the peer supervision and the one-to-ones.


Being an absolute specialist means that we are commited to working from the zone as much as possible - that is all - everything else will follow
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Tuesday, 13 September 2011

October workshop

The workshop in October will be open to all practitioners, complementary therapists and allied health professionals. It will explore tools for uncovering the deeper, and often subconscious issue that is causing your cleint to be stuck, confused or suffering. Working with the deeper issues is more rewarding and once your client is conscious of the block they will see their own answers. Job done.

Join us on October 20th to share and practice skills.
https://www.eventelephant.com/theenquirygettingtothedeeperissue

www.absolute-specialists.co.uk